Been dating for 3 months now
1) Be Independent Some “experts” say you should act unavailable.
It’s true that being overly available can seem desperate or unattractive, but the last thing you want to do is play dating games.
It’s a basic motivation, but it’s often easier for him to seduce someone he’s already been with than someone new.
Once you go completely no contact and go to great strides to forget about him, he wonders why, feels challenged and *poof* there he is again. The concept that he might genuinely want you in his life is last on the list for a reason, it’s the most tricky.You know how some song or smell will randomly remind you of an ex? Like an itch that needs scratching, something will make him think of you and then all of a sudden, there he is, saying “hey… ” He might also want you back or it could be a total fluke. It’s frustrating because it’s usually after you’ve really made an effort to exorcise your ex from your life.Men will also use this an excuse to talk to you after a breakup when they miss you. This reason sucks, but it’s actually pretty common.This is particularly likely if you’ve gone no contact with him or have been ignoring his communication.