Dating 2 people at the same time
Before you act on your feelings ask yourself, is it love that you’re feeling or lust?
Avoid making far-reaching decisions based on what could be a passing emotion.
When you’re in a committed relationship and develop a strong attraction to someone outside of it, you’ll probably feel very confused and question your commitment to your partner.
Love tends to develop slowly, over time, as you get to know someone.
Lust is usually quite instant and can have a similar effect on the brain to cocaine as sexual attraction hormones are released into the body.
I know I need to make a decision before things go too far (becoming too physical), but how do I know when?
I am trying not to let things move too fast physically or emotionally, but they both seem very interested and I just don’t know what to do.
The good news: because of the broad scope of the question, every reader who is interested in deciding between two men can use this advice.