Dating for ugly fat people
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''I always thought that I was too ugly to meet Mrs Right but my life changed when I met Janine.
''She's beautiful and I love her in every possible way.
The reason fat people are uglier is purely instinct.The way we are socialized to view fat people guides our interactions with them, wait, with US because I, myself, am a buxom size fourteen.So if the word "fat" didn’t automatically paint pictures in men (and women’s) head(s) of all things negative, we would be more open to seeing if sparks could fly- much like we might try dating someone who isn’t as tall as we would like, or who isn’t the complexion we desire (because apparently that still happens in our community in 2012… That’s not the world we live in as Erika Nicole Kendall, writer and weight loss expert, and I discussed this morning in a conversation about my own weight loss goals and my negative feelings towards the word fat.And if fat women do happen to have standards, if they somehow manage to attain a decent amount of self esteem and self worth, they are oft accosted and blamed for bringing death in the form of diabetes, heart disease and more to the doors of their communities- a la Alice Randall in her latest New York Times Op-Ed about Black women and fatness.
After all, our health issues are not a result of poor health education and food deserts, but instead that we are way too happy being fat.This happened in real time when I clicked on blogger "Crunktastic’s" piece called “Big Girls Need Love, Too: Dating While Fat (and Feminist)”.I mean, I was all for the discussion of beauty standards and how big women are often “othered” because of their size.While having ridiculously high standards can be an issue for anyone trying to find love, I don’t think the message we relate to fat women is that they should lower their standards, but that they shouldn’t have standards at all, which is absurd.