Dating someone out of pity
But it's better not going out with him, because going out with someone without feelings for them could hurt more than being rejected.You can't help the feelings you do or don't have, so don't crush yourself over it.I talked to him and told him to never do that again, but his self-esteem is really low.You’d never even guess because he has such a quirky personality, which is why I was so surprised to learn that he was dealing with so much.
If you go on so many dates and its just not working, then you can always break it off.Something that really helps people who are depressed is someone close to them that will talk to them and help them solve out their problems.Unfortunately sometimes one gets emotionally attached while the other is not interested.I think you're a great person and I care very much about you.
But I don't feel the way about you." Say something nice about him. You can show him that you care about him by being there for him and maybe make him feel loved, like on his birthday, you buy him something that he likes.I care for him a lot and I don’t know what I’d do if he was gone, but I don’t have any romantic attraction to him. Or do I reject him and make his self-esteem even lower? Let him know TELL HIM he is a great person and why! Try and get personal and bond with him, talk about what is bothering him, why, and even about the self-harm.Tell him that he is like your family and family is always there for each other. It will only make your relationship stronger, if he is open to it.Besides, you wouldn't be the first girl to fall in love with somebody who they didn't think they would at he asks you out, and you don't like him i really think you shouldn't go out with him.