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By Constantin Preda Every two weeks, Ellie Aaron interviews a talented individual who strives to make the world a better place through their work.
Well, that actually backfired on me, too, because even though I got them more interested in me at the start, I started having less success getting another date with them.
I lost her trust by being too intense with the player vibe. You can find a thousand techniques out there, and only a handful that actually work for you. I wasn't very original, and I started feeling and acting like a clone instead of being unique.
I'll come back to this in a second...) Even I had the same problems.
I'd use an opener I learned from someone, and when I walked over and used it to start a conversation, I would sound like some phony B-movie actor delivering a bad line. One girl even stopped in the middle of taking a sip from her drink, squinted at me, and said, "Did you just try that with all the other girls in here?After a while I started being a little "flexible" with the truth.I found myself purposefully hiding certain facts and even exaggerating things about me to impress her, because I figured she would find me more attractive up front.Something that comes from your own unique identity? Here's something I discovered along the way that finally gave me the "A-Ha! It's just like Spidey-sense, complete with the tingling.